Tuesday, April 30, 2013

April 2013

What an amazing April!  My mind goes straight to my amazing weekend in Washington DC with my Laurel May.  I don’t think I’ve ever had that much quality time and quality conversation packed into such a short amount of time.  I flew out on a Friday and returned on a Monday.  I was so happy to get a tiny glimpse of her DC life.  We ate exquisite food and drank delectable drinks the whole weekend.  I think gourmet food is officially ranked as my second most important love language right behind quality time.  We also got to prep and plant Laurie’s plot in a community garden she is part of.  I’ve always wanted to participate in a community garden and loved that she shared that with me.  We walked a lot and enjoyed fun little spots all around DC.  The cherry blossoms were blooming and the weather was perfect for all of our meandering.  I love, love, love my Laurel May and I cherish the time with her. 


Meanwhile, my gang of boys went camping with our Texas friends.  Caleb’s friend from robotics class, Lucas, came along so Caleb would have a friend.  I’m pretty sure that camping trip will be a big memory in both Caleb and Lucas’s minds when they reflect on their childhood!  Caleb is rarely as animated as he was driving to and from Dallas for the camping trip.  The boys were nonstop with their chatting and fun.  It made my mommy heart so happy to see.  They dropped me off at the Dallas airport and then continued on to their campgrounds.  The first night camping was just the Rusch family and the Hartshorns; that equals to 2 dads for the adults and 7 kids!  The next day the Ericksons and Hamiters joined in.  There was good rock climbing, but sadly, the lake was too cold to enjoy despite the hot weather.  The boys did manage to corner an armadillo for awhile.  After they picked me up on Monday from the airport, we took a detour at Dinosaur Valley State Park before heading home.  It was so neat!  There were actual preserved dinosaur tracks in the riverbed!  We were so excited that the water level and clarity allowed us to see the footprints.  They are not always visible.  The kids even got to put their feet in the tracks.  The river temperature was ideal and we all had a good swim.  It seemed like too much effort to go all the way back to the car after hiking down to the river, so we just swam in our clothes.  It was the best finale and really made the camping trip complete.
 
 
One weekend, we impulsively decided to try Frisbee golf out for the first time.  We had a lot of fun and can’t wait to go again.  It was a good mix of challenge, being outdoors, and family bonding.
 
The month started off with a trip to Houston.  We woke up at 5am to make it to Houston in time for Ben’s first appointment at 9am.  We were supposed to confirm Ben’s diagnosis of neurofibromatosis (NF1) at the eye specialist at this appointment, but complications came up with Ben's insurance, and we didn't get seen.  We were frustrated because we jumped through a lot of hoops to get the appointment and to get it on the same day as Ben’s other appt.  Additionally, Jon took work off to be there and it would be difficult to repeat everything.  We found ourselves with a few hours to ourselves, so   we headed for the Gulf Coast.  We explored an area new to us, the Kemah Boardwalk.  It was still closed for the morning, so we had the place all to ourselves.  We got to walk around the boardwalk and watch the seagulls diving for their breakfast.  We enjoyed our little family and the salty sea air.  It’s always so refreshing to gaze at the ocean.  We made it back in time for Ben’s next appointment at the pediatric dermatologist at the Houston Children’s Hospital.  We are so impressed with the whole hospital system.  It’s organized and efficient.  They have cared so well for us.  The final result is that Ben's skin spots have now been diagnosed as mastocytoma by the pediatric dermatologist.  It’s benign and the dermatologist believes that it has already peaked and should clear up on its own by puberty.  They drew blood to see if the spots are internal as well.  They were not, which is great, and avoids extra complications.  The dermatologist said we do not need to worry about it being NF1 and no further testing is required.  She wants to see Ben again in 6 months for a checkup.  Praise God!
 

Blessings on you and yours!

Love,
The Hartshorns

Sunday, March 31, 2013

March 2013

Our 12th Happy Saint Birth-a-versary begins!  I am so blessed to get to walk through life with Jon!  I love him so much!  Happy 12th Anniversary to us, Happy 35th Birthday to Jon, and Happy Saint Patrick's Day to everyone!!!!  Italian wine and a dish of homemade Italian Cannelloni's with Walnuts and Fried Sage started the fun off.  It was so amazing!  It had better be after more than four hours of active work.  Good thing I did the bulk of the work a day ahead of time.  I love trying new recipes and I especially love when they taste like a little old Italian grandmother made them.

We had a great celebratory weekend.  The kids got their first Texas sleepover and Jon and I got a whole night and day to just be together!  It was so perfect!  The highlight of day 1 of our 12th Happy St. Birth-a-versary was a wine tour and tasting of Messina Hof Winery.  It was very informative and we got to taste four of their wines.  Before tasting each wine, our host instructed us on how to properly taste, including trilling for white wine and clucking for red wine.  That was fun and surprisingly effective at enhancing the tastes.  I was impressed by the facility, the tour, and the wine itself.  I loved finishing up our last glass lounging by the lake with my husband of 12 years!


We topped our night off with dinner at a little local Italian eatery.  We even brought our own bottle of wine and paid the corking fee, which was a first for us.  That was fun and a dollar saver.

The next day we meandered around a cute garden store and enjoyed their tea room.  How lovely that the tea house serves complementary tea and pastries before you order your meal.  Plants and fancy food are some of my favorite things and I love that we got both in one place.  On our way home we happened upon a very Ranchero swap meet.  Watching a family chase down an escaped rooster sticks in my mind the most.  It was a very strange and entertaining swap meet.

For Jon’s birthday we had a calorie laden dinner with friends.  It was a good time.  The evening was topped off with some fantastic news!  The IRS accepted our offer-in-compromise!  We now owe only a small fraction of our outstanding tax debt that we’d gained from being self-employed in California.  We feel tremendously blessed and know it is the hand of the Lord!  Only with His grace and covering could this have worked out.  We’re another step closer to being debt free!

The good news kept coming.  I was asked to be a moderator at a new homeschool program being set up for the Fall.  I will give 4 hours of my time per week to this job and Caleb will get two free classes in exchange!  I was going to sign him up for the middle school science class anyway, so now that will be free.  I will also get to sign him up for an English class with a very dramatic and passionate teacher.  I’m very excited because Caleb loves science and I’m so thankful to find someone to pour this knowledge into him in a way I can’t.  I’m also thankful for finding someone who is truly in love with English to teach Caleb, as English is the subject that is most frustrating and difficult for Caleb.

Even more good news is that we got a truckload of parts, all FREE, to set up a watering system for my garden, from a craigslist post!  I’d wanted a watering system so badly this year, but we just couldn’t put our money towards that expense yet.  Thank you Lord for working it out for me!  God just keeps letting me know His care and love in tangible ways.  God is good!  Extra awesome is that we used our anniversary gift money to buy an automatic timer for the watering system!  Thanks Melanie!  We got it all set up and we got all the little plants hardened off and transplanted.  I was too sick to do the transplanting myself, so the boys did it for me.  I sat outside to oversee and am thankful I was able to do that much.  I’m very excited that I won’t have to hand water all the beds through the horribly hot summer!  This will be a huge time and effort saver for me!


We had a nice Easter, although we missed our usual California traditions.  I was very sick, so we just stayed at home.  Jon talked with the boys about the meaning of Easter and told the Easter story.  Then we had a fun Easter egg hunt in the yard.  Ben raced around with glee.  He is such a delight!  Both boys had fun and especially enjoyed eating their spoils.  We topped our day off with a family movie and popcorn.  Caleb is really into the Harry Potter movies right now.  We’ve watched one a weekend for the last four weekends.
 


Blessings on you and yours!

Love,
The Hartshorns

Thursday, February 28, 2013

February 2013

We're doing really well.  Both boys are doing great with school and really like the extra classes they're taking. It’s been about 4 weeks since Jon broke his ribs. He's over the worst of it now, but in the beginning he had a lot of pain and had to really watch his movements.

We enjoyed Valentine's Day with a game of Lego Creationary and a warm gooey pizookie รก la mode. Pizookies are big cookies typically cooked in a pizza pan.  I loved how touched the boys were by the special Valentines notes I wrote them.  I also love the sweet homemade cards the boys made me and the flowers from Jon.  Plus he made the pizookie so I could rest.  Then we all got tummy aches from over eating.  Opps!  I should have known that taco night and pizookies are just too much deliciousness for one night.  Will power didn't stand a chance.

I'm getting ready for my spring garden.  I've got seeds starting inside and we've got a big truck load of mushroom compost sitting in the yard steaming hot and stinky.  It’s only $10 a load from a local mushroom company.  I’m trying a couple firsts this year:  I'm starting most of my peppers from seeds I saved from last year's garden and growing all the seedlings under fluorescent grow lights.  I’m excited about the heirloom tomato seed varieties I bought this year!  I also have a few experiments going to see what works best.  I’ve got 3 techniques going for germination and 2 different seed starting soils.  I’m learning a lot. 

Getting our garden beds prepped is my current big project.  I’m still in step 1: Sift an unending amount of soil through the mesh frame Jon made for me, to get rid of all the rocks and debris, before we mix in the mushroom compost.  Thankfully this epic job is a one time job.  I'm super impressed with the boys’ commitment to this project.  We felt like we were doing an archaeological dig.  Maybe we'll unearth something awesome...instead of just the disgusting grubs we've found so far.  We have a long way to go, but I'm feeling really good about our progress.  Hard work leaves me feeling really satisfied :)  Additionally, I had a couple soul replenishing catch up phone calls with dear CA friends this month. My heart is feeling full and satisfied.

I’ve got my ticket booked to go to visit my dear college friend, Laurie, in Washington DC in April!  I’m really excited!  I’ve wanted to get out there for years to get a taste of her life in DC.  Actively participating in the lives of my dear friends is important to me and I’m thankful I finally can put my words/heart into action.   I’m flying out of Dallas, which is about 3 hours from us.  The boys have campgrounds reserved for that weekend near Dallas.  They’re going to have so much fun camping with our friends.

We’ve gone to a monthly homeschool skate day two months in a row now.  We took Ben’s friend Cole with us both times and they’ve had a blast.  It was Cole’s first time last month and Ben’s second, ever, at a skating rink.  It is so fun to see how quickly both boys are progressing.  This time, as old pros (Cole’s 2nd and Ben’s 3rd time), they were attempting to do double skate jumps like the teenagers.  They actually got pretty close with their cute little hops.  There was a lot of “watch me Mom!”  I ohhh’d and ahhh’d appropriately :)  I skated with the kids the first time and took it easy on the sidelines this time, as I wasn’t feeling well.  It’s so sweet seeing Ben and Cole’s friendship blossom right before my eyes.  They stayed close to each other’s side skating or were hanging on the rink’s wall chatting and watching the other skaters.  It was soooo cute!  Meanwhile, I’ve been getting to know some other homeschool moms who come.

I really love the Food & Wine Magazine I’ve been getting!  I got it as a free extra when I ordered my Kitchenaid mixer.  I’ve tried some really amazing recipes from it, such as a very delicious bagel recipe!  This is especially exciting since there aren't a plethora of bagel stores here in Texas, like there are in CA.  Now I can make my own delicious homemade bagels!  Plus, bonus, I very successfully recreated the fillings from my favorite bagel sandwich from a CA bagel shop - homemade spinach egg patties, melted cheddar, homemade chipotle mayo, bacon, avocado, and tomato! Soooo good!

I’ve also acquired some new ramekins that Target was clearancing out.  I’ve made my first pot pie and it was amazing, especially the dough.  It was another Food & Wine find and the secret ingredient is potato flakes!

 
 
 
 
 

Thursday, January 31, 2013

January 2013

Ben had his appointment at the Houston Children's Hospital in the genetics dept.  It went really well!  The doctor we saw was so great.  He is a specialist in neurofibromatosis (NF1) and his gut thinks that Ben does not have it.  He wants to do blood work that will confirm officially, but as of Jan 1st, our insurance will not cover that specific code.  They are going to court to resolve this and expect it to be resolved in a few months.  As an alternative, the doctor is referring us to an eye doctor in Houston to look for NF1 characteristics that show up in the eyes.  Ben's muscles, and leg muscles specifically, do not have the typical weakness that is present in people with NF1.  He also doesn't have the typical spots in the armpit and groin area.  The doctor didn't think that Ben's spots have the classic look of NF1, but admits it could be it.  Ben's spots didn't respond under ultraviolet light like a typical NF1 response.  He also isn't having seizures or learning disabilities, which are common among kids with NF1.  So, next step, see the eye doctor.  He is also referring us to a pediatric dermatologist in Houston.  He doesn't have any idea what Ben's spots may be, but hopes a dermatologist will be able to figure it out.  Depending on the results at the eye doctor/dermatologist, we may or may not need blood work at all.  Both appointments are set for the same day in April, which is helpful because it’s a 2 hour drive from our home.

We celebrated Ben being done with the doctor visit with a trip to the Houston Zoo.  Ben was a crack up at the zoo.  He was on a mission the whole time; to track down the next animal he was desperate to see.  Once he found the desired animal, he had no need to linger.  He was ready to move on.  He seemed especially excited to find the Komodo dragon.  He kept covering his eyes while we were walking around, because he wanted to be surprised when we finally found the Komodo dragon.  So cute!  I had to keep telling him he had to be able to see to walk and to look for the Komodo dragon.  We also got to hear a huge tiger making incredibly loud sounds.  I would almost say it was moaning.  It wasn't quite a roar or a growl.  It was amazing!  I've never heard a big cat in person like that and it was such an impressively loud and unforgettable sound.  We also saw a giraffe fight!  So fascinating!  It was a very dramatic and slow fight.  They would swing their necks around, to gain momentum, and then bash into the other's neck with their horns.  Who knew?  One also kept using his back legs to try to pull the other's back legs out.  They just kept taking blows at each other.  It was intense and looked so painful.  We were mesmerized.


We enjoyed some Red Robin burgers and a quick stop at Ikea on our way home.   It’s fun to go to familiar places that we don’t have in our town.

God is good and has kept me in His peace despite some big emotional, physical, and financial stresses this month.   I won’t go into too many details, but I’m very thankful for our God.  I saw one doctor who was unsuccessful with a procedure for me.  It was very painful and took awhile to recover from.  She said I needed surgery and would need anesthesia.  I have no insurance and didn’t know how God was going to work this all out.  Additionally, I felt awkward and uncomfortable with this doctor.  While I was waiting for my referral, some other potentially scary stuff was happening with my body.   There was lots of praying and processing happening.  Peace is something that takes a lot of internal work to maintain, and I’ve been working hard.  Waiting for the next “unknown” step is another stress I had to work through to maintain my peace.  I finally got my referral call, but I had concerns because it was not for a surgeon and it was for an office where I would have to pay full price for everything. Thankfully, we got it worked out and I got an appointment at a clinic, where I get a big price break, with their nurse practitioner and a surgeon who comes in on Fridays.  The surgeon was able to do the procedure without surgery and with much less pain than the previous doctor’s attempt!  The nurse practitioner was so kind and caring.  She held my hands and talked me through the pain and discomfort!  What a different experience than last time!  Praise the Lord that we were able to have all the medical work for me and Ben paid in full, despite me having no insurance.  God totally worked it out!  I’m so relieved at being at the end of the medical procedures for myself, the unknowns are known, the finances are covered, and there is a big likelihood that Ben does not have NF1.  Whew!

One weekend we scoured pawn shops all day so Jon could make use of his Christmas "banjo fund" gift that the kids and I gave him for Christmas.  I love that my sweet kids pitched in their money to bless their Daddy.  We ended up finding a Goodtime Deering banjo at a fantastic price.  It has a great sound.  I love hearing Jon play it.  The kids also got pretty interested in wanting to learn to play.  They lost their interest a week later, but it was cute watching them practice the tunes Jon taught them while it lasted.

I’ve had some really sweet times with the kids this month while we’re schooling.  I’m so appreciative of the life I have.  I’m intensely appreciative of the depth of relationship I get to build with my kids by being there with them so much more than if I had made other choices with their schooling.  I’m deeply glad I get so much more time with them while they are young.  I love snuggling in the recliner, drinking my morning cup o' joe, and teaching Ben about fractions.  I love getting to enjoy the warmer winter days bundled up on the porch doing grammar, spelling, and phonics with Ben.  I love sitting on a sun warmed trampoline reading the latest novel out loud to the kids.  Homeschooling has some pretty awesome perks :)

One weekend we had a lovely day trip at Huntsville State Park with the Rusch family.  We went on a couple hikes and picnicked overlooking a beautiful lake.  It's amazing how good a turkey sandwich tastes after a hike.  The winter weather felt like spring, crisp and perfect.  The landscape was very woodsy and the waters were at times swampy and marshy and other times more of a clear river.  We kept our eyes peeled for the alligators that inhabit the area, but we never saw one. We later got to see and pet a baby alligator at the ranger station.  That was especially fun for the kids.  On one of our hikes Jon and Caleb were having a pine cone throwing war. As they were racing through the woods pelting each other with pine cones, Jon tripped on a big tree root. He went down so hard it literally broke his bones, his rib bones!  He’s continuing on with life, despite his broken ribs, and improving each day.

 
 
 



Monday, December 31, 2012

December 2012

We're doing really well. We had a round or two of the stomach bug here. Ben seems to keep getting it repeatedly. But despite that, we've managed to stay on top of our schooling.

Something you could be praying about for us. Two doctors have now diagnosed Ben with neurofibromatosis (NF1). We have a genetics appointment scheduled for mid January in Houston to confirm the diagnosis. If it is neurofibromatosis, then it could be a very serious thing. He doesn't show most of the indicators that he falls on the more harmful end of the spectrum, like seizures, migraines, speech impediments, or learning disabilities.  It seems that as the child gets older though, more problems could arise. Please pray against this for Ben.  NF1 is defined by tumors, called neurofibromas, which grow along nerves in the body, or on, or under the skin. As the tumors increase in size, they can press on vital areas of the body, causing problems in the way the body functions. Ben has lots of brown cafรฉ au lait spots on his skin which have been spreading steadily the last couple years. The first spots are now becoming raised. These distinctive spots don't hurt or bother him in any way, but they are indicators of a problem.  Hopefully they don't turn into anything more serious than spots that can be removed.  We’ll keep you posted.

We had a really good time picking out our Christmas tree this year from a Christmas tree farm.  It was fun watching the boys do the work of cutting down our tree once we all finally agreed on the very best tree of them all.  I liked the bluish hue the tree branches had.  It was really beautiful.  It lasted a really long time, which was awesome.  I’m wondering if we’ll ever do that again though, because decorating it was an immense pain.  It was super sappy, and besides covering us in sap, it also covered our hands and arms with painful and itchy rashes.  But…it was especially beautiful.  Maybe if we wear gloves up to our elbows next year?

Christmas was great!  My parents came up for a visit and we had a really nice time.  The big gift this year was a trampoline for the kids.  They were soooo excited!  We had it still in the box, hidden under a blanket outside.  Just when they thought the Christmas goodness was done, we told them they had one more present.  I love the overwhelming excitement that hit the kids, especially Caleb!  He was so excited that he leapt into his Daddy’s arms!  Awww!  It melts a Mommy’s heart.  Caleb is usually so mellow and calm.  I love that the boys ran outside barefoot and in jammies despite the freezing winter weather.

The other big gift was a banjo fund for Jon.  The boys and I can’t wait to see what he picks out.  The boys even contributed their own money to the secret banjo fund for Daddy.  We’ve been saving for a long time and hunting music stores in case we found a good deal.  I’m really impressed that Ben didn’t spill the beans.

My parent’s Christmas trip got derailed when Mom got injured jumping on the trampoline with the boys.  X-rays showed that she broke her foot in two places.  I felt so bad that happened.  And extra bummer was that Dad caught a bad cold here at the end of their trip.  What a horrible way to have to make the long drive back home from Texas to California!
 
We love you all tons!  Thanks for being a part of our lives!  Merry Christmas!
 
 
 
Love,
The Hartshorns

Friday, November 30, 2012

November 2012

We had a great Thanksgiving with cousin Aaron and the Rusch family.  I’m thankful they’ve taken us in like family.  I successfully made my first pumpkin pie, my first pecan pie, and my second sweet potato casserole (last year’s was a bust).  They turned out great for our 2nd Texas Thanksgiving.  It's kind of bizarre that I'd never made these All-American classics before.

I think we have a new after Thanksgiving “Texas” tradition – the corn maze!  I never imagined I'd find myself racing through an enormous corn maze:  Aaron and Ben, versus me and Jon, versus Caleb going solo, and it was soooo fun!  We had the best family day and topped our adventure off with a stop by the Blue Bell Creamery Ice Cream Parlor. 

After Thanksgiving, I purchased a P.E. program.  I’m very impressed with it so far.  It gives me 30-60 minute lessons that build on themselves.  I see a big improvement in both boys’ coordination and strength, even though we’re only getting to it once or twice a week.  Caleb has even noticed feeling happier after a lesson, which makes me a happy momma.  Way to go endorphins!  It works muscle groups, coordination, reaction time, spatial awareness, etc. in intentional ways.  The kids are getting much more from this program than they were getting from just playing outside as their exercise.  Plus it gets me out there playing and engaging with the kids in a new way.  Overall, I’m hopeful that this will impact the health and fun of the Hartshorns, as well as teach the ability to take care of oneself - a skill I'm not great at. I want better for my kids.

Caleb is growing like crazy! He is a quarter of an inch taller than 25 days ago!

I decided to attempt to propagate some of my herbs and to over-winter the parent basil plant since I live somewhere now that experiences actual winter and freezes.  The propagating worked really well for my pineapple basil and my rosemary.  They love my window sill and are rooting splendidly.  Additionally, I learned that if I put the bottoms of grocery store green onions in some water and set it in my window, they’ll grow! Now I can just trim off what I need when cooking, plus they're cute.  I’m thrilled with all this new gardening knowledge!

One Friday and Saturday we really packed in the fun!  Ben had his Fine Arts Friday classes, we had new friends over for a fun afternoon, and we spent the evening at a birthday party at a gymnastics studio.  Then Jon and the boys spent the whole night lake fishing on a boat with our neighbor.  Then we went to a pecan farm festival in the morning, shortly after the boys walked in the door from fishing.  We enjoyed watching a potter work on her pottery wheel at the festival and took an informative and relaxing 45 minute wagon ride through the orchards.  It was a gorgeous fall day.  After we got home the boys crashed hard and I decided to make some pasta from scratch.


 

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

October 2012


October started with a visit from Granny and the grand entrance of the beautiful crisp Fall weather.  The trip highlight was having friends over for the first campfire of the season and dining on Granny's super delicious chili, cornbread, and fried pies.

We went camping at Guadalupe River State Park with the Ruschs, Ericksons, and cousin Aaron.  On the drive there we were entertained by an authentic Ranchero showing off his lasso tricks while his gas was pumping.  We were a pump over watching with big grins.  It was so awesome and somehow made my Texas life more complete.....  Definitely crazy camping weather; sometimes muggy, overcast, and humid, sometimes raining, and sometimes perfect!  Caleb had a great first day camping and he was super excited that we let him stay up with the adults by the campfire as late as he wanted for the first time ever.  Sadly, he came down with a cold the second day and was a big pile of mopey sadness.  We tried to express that you can have a good attitude even while you feel sick, but he just couldn’t kick the floppy body language and frowny face; with the exception of the couple rounds of the Settlers of Catan board game he got to play with the grown ups.  He loved that and it was enough to distract him from feeling bad.  So Caleb and Jon had to sit out on our big river float, which was a bummer.  Ben and I really loved our first river float.  The adults were outnumbered by small children, each on their own floatation devices.  It was interesting keeping track of all the kids, but we managed.  I mostly kept track of my Ben.  I was in my tube with my legs hooked over onto Ben’s tube.  He grabbed my feet to doubly make sure he didn’t float away.  He was nervous, but excited.  He did great until we got to the small rapids section of the river.  He was not okay with that.  We had to get out while I tried to talk him into trying it with me.  I decided, kind of stupidly, to squish Ben’s partially deflated tube into the center hole of my tube.  The beginnings of the currents were very shallow and I was trying to increase our buoyancy so we didn’t have to combat scraping our behinds up on all the rocks, while simultaneously trying to keep Ben having fun.  I sat him on my lap for us to brave the rapids together in my double tube invention.  Our tubes totally tipped and dumped me on top of Ben.  The currents + the rocks + a scared Ben + a smashed Ben under a Mom = a terrified, bleeding, scraped up Ben.  Epic Mom fail!  So, while the rest of the group played in the rapids for the next hour and half, Ben and I sat on the side lines.  But, just about the time we were all ready to leave, I finally got Ben to try the rapids.  It helped a lot that he had been watching all the other kids going down the shoot over and over and over.  Also, the men delved into their inner child and went nuts rearranging the boulders to make the most ideal rapids shoot possible.  This is really the reason that Ben finally felt comfortable enough to brave the rapids.  Yay Ben and yay Justin, Jay, and Aaron!  Once Ben got going, he really loved the rapids.  I loved it too.  I’ve never done anything like that before and it was a blast!  I was so bummed that Caleb and Jon missed out.  We brought the gang all back the next afternoon though.  I forced Caleb to try the rapids a couple times, but he just didn’t feel good enough to be able to enjoy it.  He spent most of his time sitting around.  At least he was sitting around in gorgeous scenery.  We set up a table in the shallow rocks and the group played another round of Settlers of Catan, which brightened up Caleb’s afternoon.  I spent some lovely time with my camping chair set up in the middle of the river sunning myself after a few chilly rides down the rapids.  It was so perfect.

One day Ben’s Friday school needed me to volunteer as the teacher's assistant. Each parent has to volunteer twice throughout the school year, but since we started a little late, all the spots had been filled.  I’m the backup if someone has to cancel.  It was a fun and random day.  I had all the art classes. It was great seeing what Ben does in school because I haven’t been able to get much info out of him when I pick him up from school.  Really, hardly anything at all; and no work had been sent home with him either.  I was getting very curious.  It was exciting to see what art projects he’s been working on and what he is like in the school setting!  He is very cute, in case you were wondering, although I know I’m partial.  It was a great day, but I was running on low because Caleb had been sick since our camping trip and I’ve had to get up a lot during the previous few nights to help him.  That particular night I missed many hours of sleep.

I finally figured out a plan for Caleb’s English curriculum that works for us.  It’s a bit of this and that.  I found some stuff in the education store in town and some I improvised.  Caleb is no longer doing busy work or using curriculum that doesn’t fit his learning styles – he’s learning and that makes me glad.

Near the end of the month we had a fantastic Saturday; the best day!  We got a ton done in the house, Jon repaired his lathe machine, Caleb and Jon began making a new board game, Quoridor, Jon taught Ben how to play catch, and we even got a game of tennis in! Then we finished our night off with friends, roasting chili cheese dogs, and eating ice cream around a campfire in our yard.

Caleb first saw the game Quoridor in a teacher supply store when I was looking at homeschool curriculum. He was super interested, so he and Jon made plans to make their own.  I am so amazed and proud of Caleb and Jon for their creativity, perseverance, and ingenuity.  In one weekend they created their design, cut out the board/walls, turned the game pieces (1 representing each member of our family - guess who is who in the photos), sanded, and varnished it all.  We are so pleased with how fun the game is!  It’s very addictive.  Here are the game rules if you’re interested.  http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quoridor

We very much missed our annual Halloween party at Jared & Claudine Allen’s home and trick-or-treating with the Flores and Jenkins families.  We miss our California friends an extra measure at times like these.  But we were still able to have a good time.  A couple days before Halloween, I asked the boys to look through our costumes, to see what they could come up with to wear.  Caleb just wasn’t satisfied with anything.  He has exhausted what we have and is too big now to be impressed with anything Target has to offer.  So we brainstormed and decided to tackle making him into a Lego minifigure, which is the little Lego person.  He really got excited!  It took two long days to make the Lego costume. I knew, yet didn't know, what I was getting myself into. It's amazing what cardboard, styrofoam sheets, glue, tape, and paint can become. Oh, and some PVC for the hands.   It really turned out spectacular. 

We joined the Rusch family at their church’s Harvest Festival again this year.  It was pretty much the same as last year.  Caleb turned a lot of heads as we walked in.  Sadly, he quickly became disoriented, overheated, and wilty in his costume.  It was very stifling in the styrofoam head, with very limited vision, and he couldn’t bend his knees to walk.  It turned out to be a very impressive, but impractical costume.  He ended up sitting out on a lot of the festivities. Meanwhile, Jon and I took Ben around to play the variety of carnival games for candy.  We dined on chili dogs, cotton candy, and popcorn.  We got to check out all kinds of prehistoric looking creatures, went for a hayride, and Ben got a balloon snake made by the balloon man.  Caleb had fun doing the costume contest at the end of the night.  Funny enough, there was another little boy in line with him in a homemade cardboard box costume that he had designed to be a transformer in its vehicle mode.  He was a nice little boy about Caleb’s age and I was later telling Caleb that he should go find that boy and try to make friends with him.  Caleb wasn’t interested in doing that of course, but I was internally pining over this potential friendship.  I could just tell that they would be great friends.

Later on, one of my new friends showed up.  I was surprised to see her because we know her from Caleb’s robotics class.  Her son and Caleb had hit it off in class and we had been over to her house once for a play date.  It turned out that her brother brought her son Lucas to the Harvest Festival because she had taken her youngest to the hospital.  So the little boy I had been pining over ended up being Caleb’s friend already!  We just didn’t recognize him out of context!  So funny!  I have no doubt that these friendships will grow and grow.

Caleb was very excited to win the costume contest for his age group.  He has now won two years in a row.  Last year he had put together a very random assortment of bits of pieces from our dress up box and called himself Captain Random.

We're considering finishing up the details that we ran out of time to add to the Lego costume, name him, and then photograph him in funny places around town over the next year. We were cracking ourselves up with our ideas on our drive home.  I’m kind of hoping we do, I think we’d have a good time. 

I’ll end this entry with a super new tasty dessert I discovered.  It’s perfect for Fall and I’ve even made it twice because they are so yummy, and I rarely care about treats.   Here you go…welcome to the world of Pumpkin Whoopie Pies with cream cheese frosting! 

Whoopie Pie Recipe (disregard the frosting portion):

Frosting Recipe (You need to double the frosting recipe, and although this whole recipe is tasty, you only need the frosting portion for the pumpkin whoopie pies):

Tip: When you drop the cookie batter onto the cookie sheets, you need to use a spoon and swirl them into a flatter and smoother shape. They pretty much stay the same shape as they are when you put them on the cookie sheet.